From a very young age, we are taught to fear failure. We might watch the disappointment in our parents’ faces when bringing home a low grade on a test in elementary school; experience the scorn of our peers when missing a shot in a big game during high school; and feel a dire sense of dread when our first boss tells us we did wrong. As a result, we learn to hide our failures in hopes that the world will never know we messed up.
But loss and failure –those moments we “fuckup” – teach us so much more than success ever does. As the late Pat Conroy said in his book My Losing Season “Loss is a fiercer, more uncompromising teacher, coldhearted, but clear-eyed in its understand that life is more dilemma than game, and more trial than free pass. . . . Though I learned some things from the games we won that year, I learned much, much more from loss.
This episode includes a great conversation with the founders of FuckUp Nights/Atlanta: Jay Cranman and Tim Adkins. These accomplished professionals’ careers span the for profit, nonprofit, and social good sectors, with a very unique story to share. We talk about their efforts to help people move failure from the shadows and move past it.
To find out about the next FuckUp Night in Atlanta visit www.funatl.org. If you are outside of Atlanta and want to find a FuckUp Night near you, go to www.fuckupnights.com.
In this featured conversation, we discussed:
- The origin of FuckUp Nights
- Why they brought it to Atlanta
- The importance of an environment supportive of failure
- Why high-profile speakers choose to publicly share their mistakes and the benefit they get from it
- Future FuckUp Nights planned for Atlanta
To find out about the next FuckUp Night in Atlanta visit www.funatl.org. If you are outside of Atlanta and want to find a FuckUp Night near you, go to www.fuckupnights.com.